Orgini? Kinla? What for? WIFE SWAPPING IN NAMIBIA
Wife swapping among
Namibia’s nomadic tribes has been practised for generations but a legislator’s
call to enshrine it in law has stirred debate about women’s rights and
tradition in modern society.
The practice is more
of a gentlemen’s agreement where friends can have sex with each others’ wives
with no strings attached.
Swinging with an African tribal touch? Or “rape”, as some critics sees it.
The wives have little
say in the matter, according to those who denounce the custom as both abusive
and risky in a country with one of the world’s highest HIV/Aids rates.
But the Ovahimba and
Ovazemba tribes, based mainly in this southern African country’s arid north,
contend their age-old custom strengthens friendships and prevents promiscuity.
“It’s a culture that
gives us unity and friendship,” said Mr Kazeongere Tjeundo, a lawmaker and
deputy president of the opposition Democratic Turnhalle Alliance of Namibia.
“It’s up to you to
choose [among] your mates who you like the most … to allow him to sleep with
your wife,” said Mr Tjeundo, a member of the Ovahimba ethnic group.
Concerned that
HIV/Aids could be used as an excuse to stop the ancient tradition, he and
others are suggesting regulations be adopted to ensure “good practice”.
Mr Tjeundo said he
plans to propose a wife-swapping law, following a November legislative poll
when he is tipped for re-election.
Known as okujepisa
omukazendu - which loosely means “offering a wife to a guest” – the
practice is little known outside these reclusive communities, whose population
is estimated at 86 000.
Mainly found in the
north-western Kunene region near the Angolan border, the communities are largely
isolated from the rest of the country. They have resisted the trappings of
modern life, keep livestock, live off the land and practice ancestral worship.
I would never do it, if my husbnd forces me, he will have to kill me first!
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